I went to see Silver Linings Playbook today. I just couldn’t let it go without sharing it with you. It was a beautifully orchestrated movie. A movie that spoke to me in ways that I don’t think a movie has ever done. I felt part of the story, I found myself immersed in the story line, hoping for the same things the characters did.
I’m a bit of a sucker for movies and books about mental illness so I knew that this was a movie that was going to be on my ‘must see’ list. I am always anxious to see just how a director has portrayed the mental illness, how ‘real’ it feels. I don’t like comedies about mental illness. They make me feel disgusted that so far into the 21st century we are dealing with ‘making fun’ of things that people everywhere, everyday struggle with. I can assure you that they don’t think it’s a laughing matter.
Silver Linings Playbook was the first movie that I have ever seen that really portrayed mental illness in a respectful way. The director made you fall in love with the characters, despite their ‘damage’. I could really relate to the characters, they were real people, people who you could imagine living next to you, people that you’ve met. In fact Pat Jnr reminded me of some of the patients I have encountered during my inpatient stays.
The talk of medication was something that I myself have done countless times with other patients. You scope each other out, figure out who is the ‘crazier’ one. It’s always the other person. Which kind of adds to your own delusion. The struggles of the family were also raw and gut wrenching. The family were doing everything they could to help their son, and nothing seemed to work. Robert De Niro was a surprising addition as Pat Snr. I teared up right along with him when he poured his heart out to his confused son.
Even if you don’t have a mental illness yourself, I think you will be touched by this story. A love story with a twist. A story where you find yourself sitting on the edge of your seat, hoping he gets the girl. This movie really offers insight into the lives of the people who both suffer from mental illness and those who love them. The acting was superb and really gave life to the story. Nothing was over acted, it made you feel that things were that much more real.
If you haven’t already, I really suggest you go and see this movie. It will stay with you, it will make you think and it will make you feel. Take your tissues though, because it will touch you in ways that you didn’t thing were possible.
Here’s the trailer, just in case you weren’t convinced