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Anxiety and worry are not the same

It has come to my attention that some people seem to think that the words worry and anxiety can be interchangeable.  Nope.  They aren’t the same at all.  One is a fleeting thought, while the other is a debilitating mental illness.

Yesterday, I read this post which told the story of one woman’s experience with untreated post natal anxiety.  Eva has also shared her story here on my blog.  The post also went on to discuss the impact that a Facebook post could have had on an anxious new mum. read more

The difference between crying it out and taking timeout

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Right now, thanks to an article doing the rounds in local media, baby sleep experts are up in arms because Crying it Out (CIO) has been supposedly given the big tick.  The study is quite limited, and hasn’t really shown that crying it out is better long term.  It has simply proven that it works quicker than other methods studied.  That’s not my beef though.  I have an issue with the black and white thinking that you are either loving your child by not doing CIO or you aren’t be a loving parent if you leave them to cry. read more

Why I’m investigating my son’s quirks

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Mr 6 has had a rocky relationship with sleep since he was 2 years old.  Before that he was the perfect sleeper.  I was that smug Mum who thought that because I was following the rules, my baby was sleeping.  In my quest, I wanted to know why, not just sit back and accept that he just had trouble with sleep. read more

The school yard bubble

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This week the prompt for I must confess is ‘I don’t understand…’.  I was going to link up an old post I had written about same sex marriage and the people who oppose it.  However something else has been bumping around in my mind for a little while now.  Then last week Near As Dammit’s post pushed it to the forefront.  The thing that has me perplexed at the moment is the bubble that is school.Jessie’s post shared the story of her son and how he was punished for retaliating after being repeatedly punched by a much larger boy.  The education department has stated that they have a zero tolerance policy to bullying, and that this includes physical violence.  On the surface this seems like a good idea. read more